Privacy, and my lack of it.

25 February, 2007 in Normal by Justin | 1 comment

For those of you who grew up sharing a room with siblings, or in a dorm, I’m sure you’ll understand this sentiment.

How does one find privacy in such a public setting as a shared bedding area or a shared bathroom?

I’m used to being able to close the door, put on my headphones, and space out without the inconvenience of someone tapping me and saying Hi! or whatever. How does one discourage that activity without seeming like they’re an evil bastard operator from hell?

I mean, I like most of my roomies and all, but I don’t want to seem unapproachable to them, because I don’t want to be bothered when my headphones are on and all. I like — no, I value my privacy like others value their significant other. I don’t want to be disturbed when I’m in bed. So, any suggestions on how to deter these people from bothering me when I don’t feel like being pestered?

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  1. Tina Silva’s avatar

    Tina Silva on 26 February, 2007 at 22:57

    You can always post a sign above your bed or next to your head if you have like a backboard or wall there. The sign can read something like:

    “Piss off or face the consequences!”

    or a basic one

    “Do Not Disturb!”

    Good luck! I value my privacy as well, and usually just tell my friends, family, or others to piss off and leave me alone while I’m doing whatever that needs my full attention.

    -Tina Silva

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